Kaliyah's space

When in relationships alot of time I think people use the four letter word to freely. Some people dont  realize the total impact of the word until they feel the other person is being to clingy or to demanding. Some people fall in love or so they say, after good sex. I call that lust. Many people have not experienced good sex and cant control themselves when then someone puts it on them. I am quite sure everyone has been a witness to that. I bet you are thinking about that person right now. But after that wears off you start to see the real person and usually that person turns out to be a real ass, and you began to totally despise them. That I belive is to get you over the fact of good sex and move you on to the next level. Which is the person who buys your love. For some reason when this person comes along, they seem to treat you like you owe them something. That is why I dont accept freely because all things are not given from the heart. When giving from the heart you want absolutely nothing in return. Some people tend to DEBO love . Now how in the hell are you gonna make someone love you. That is pure hate. That relationship is, and most likely always very abusive. I dont think a cell phone is a gift it is a tracking device. Most people use the word to get what they want and I must admit it has got alot of ass, money , cars, clothes, & jewlery but you know what, in the end the receiver had hell to pay. KARMA , for some people they think, aw man that will never happen to me ........ oh but it will. So I just think takeing relationships slow and easy is the most logical thing to do. Love only cares about itself. Have you ever noticed how when you break up with someone you love you will shut every one out wont eat or sleep until you either get over it or talk to them. It is more powerful than lot of people think it is. It can have you sick as a dog. Or happier than a runnaway slave. I have seen all aspects of the word and I can safely say I love, love because I love myself and in loveing myself I will not allow someone to do me any kind of way. I treat people the way they treat me. You treat me good I treat you good you try to dog me out and I will holla at you.